It’s sad, 8 YO’s can be a handful, even when they have been brought up in a stable family... The U.S. should have it’s own orphanages, stocked with all those little souls we abort.
we have some living and breathing just sitting in limbo because birth parents get chance after chance after chance to get their kids back... 18 years later, the parent still doesn't have it together and the children go from foster home to foster home if they are lucky... otherwise it's group home to group home... we adopted both of our boys through CPS... or county services, if you will...