I grew up in Palm Springs with a gay father. I know more about homosexuality and homosexual sex than a lot of gays do.
They use terms like fag, queer, homo, queen...all the time.
If they can use the terms, why can’t I?
I know they do.
Are you going to say honestly, that someone using it in this context isn’t derogatory?
Does that also mean because black people use the N word you do too?
Just curious.