Why would someone name a stranger as someone who should be allowed in to see them?
We can't just disagree with Obama because he's wrong 99.999% of the time.
Let's say you are just out of surgery and doped to the gills. Under the old rules only family members, by blood or marriage, or other person with prior arranged permission would be allowed access to your drugged and helpless person. Under the new rules well, as long as they claim to be your lover, they must be allowed access. It could be anybody. Whether you know them or want to see them or not.