I couldn’t use that test. I know two wonderful ladies who had abortions at the pressure of their jerk boyfriends when they were teens. Both regret it. One says God may have forgiven her, but she still can’t. I told her she could use her experience to keep other girls from going through the same experience.
I know about the judge not thing,but there is also the adcive to not associate with some persons.
Not sure of her religious beliefs but I was chatting with my priest and he said that forgiving oneself is extremely important to be healed from such sins.
He said God's grace is endless but you must let go of those sins that you are absolved from. Satan loves nothing better than to throw your sins back in your face and dishearten you.