[thecodont]

"A 70-year-old Korean man once reached over to rub my inner thigh as we talked in my office," he said. "His gesture was meant to show, ‘I know you. I'm friendly. I've seen you on TV.'

"But I explained that as South Korea becomes more globalized, foreign visitors won't understand. I advised him to stop doing that."

[Travis McGee]

"Why do Japanese...." never mind.

[max americana]

This is the weekly “white liberal guilt’ article from the LAT.

[Tamar1973]

In 1993, Min published "Ugly Koreans, Ugly Americans," examining customs that are often lost in translation across the Pacific Ocean. He co-wrote follow-ups, "Ugly Japanese, Ugly Americans" and "Ugly Chinese, Ugly Americans," which further detail clashes between East and West.

I have his Ugly Koreans, Ugly Americans book. It was hilarious.

[Tench_Coxe]

And things like this don't help:

From a Japanese-English phrasebook (could be a hoax, but funny):

* A 29-year-old Tokyo man visiting San Francisco for the first time meant to ask a female store clerk, “May I please have film for my camera?” But what he actually said was, “Would you place your copious breasts in my mouth?” He was slapped in the face, then got tossed out by the manager.
* Four family members from Osaka were thrilled see their favorite American singer coming out of a ritzy store in Beverly Hills. While waving frantically, they shouted out what they believed to be, “We love you so much.” Unfortunately, what they really said was, “We’re here to take your head.” The four were arrested and detained for six hours by police.
* A 45-year-old tourist from Okinawa looking for the legendary Apollo Theater in Harlem thought he was asking a group of young men, “I am lost. Which way is uptown?” In reality, he said, “I know martial arts. May I kick your ass?” He was chased five blocks before being rescued by police.

[Tench_Coxe]

One common phrase that you will hear from all three: “O.K.”

[Swede Girl]

It is interesting to learn the differences in culture. This is the same all over the world...there are different traditions and cultures with their own social rules.

Sometimes the differences are there even within the same country. For example, social behavior is quite different in New York City and surrounding areas compared to many towns in the southern states. Eye contact with strangers is seldom made in the northeast. In the real south (without many Yankee transplants) it is common and even expected to make eye contact with strangers and to also greet them with a nice comment.

[Nepeta]

It's always a good idea to have some notion of the local expectations and etiquette--just making the attempt will probably win points and earn some forgiveness from the locals for whatever doesn't go quite right.

Consider what a fool our president makes of himself by making up his own etiquette as he goes along.