OK, I’ve just re-read every exchange you and I have had. I’ve addressed each question you’ve asked, and responded to each point you’ve made.
Is there a question you’ve asked that I haven’t replied to, or a comment of yours that I have not addressed?
Bottom line: It’s OK to critique the route, the ship, the season, the timing. But it’s no OK to demonize this young woman’s parents, ascribing to them motives that we just do not know.