I was a 14 year old boy once, and I wouldn’t call this child abuse. The boy came back for more, seems to me. On the spectrum, this one is closer to fantasy fulfillment than ‘child abuse.’
I just don’t see where the people who are outraged by these adult female on young male dalliances. Trust me, the boys in most of these cases are very willing participants.
Lots of men had first or early experiences with older women, for a variety of reasons. Most of those males suffered no emotional damage. The truth is the truth.
It’s really more of an issue of abuse of power. Do you really want school teachers of either sex having sexual relationships with students? Seriously?