1. Smarten up and stop allowing yourself to be used by this player or any other. Put men/dating on hold. Your life is a mess and needs straightening.
2. Keep your legs crossed, and concentrate on your future.
3. Sit down and draw up a plan of action for your future and that of your child.
4. Sue for child support and make sure you get it.
5. Continue your education and get a job.
6. Work toward the goal of becoming independent and self-sufficient.
7. Be an asset to your family, and refuse to become part of any further baby-mama drama.
Early sexual activity/un-protected sex has its consequences. It's time that you show some self-respect for yourself and aim your future in the right direction. Stop playing house with a baby, while you daydream that the baby's daddy will come back to you and you will all live happily ever after.
Your grown-up responsibilities means it's time to grow up.
Wow are you ever out of touch /sarcasm ....