Same here. I don’t work in a stable but I am an artist and dress pretty sloppy sometimes but it doesn’t seem to matter. I find younger women to be the rudest, like pushing ahead in a crowd and letting the door slam on you when you are entering behind them. I always hold the door open for the person behind me whether it is a man or a women, most women don’t.
I am not defending them, because they should be able to realize that they wouldn’t like a door slammed in their face, but I have to point out that these young women were probably not properly raised. Young humans have to be civilized and socialized. I think it is something that is not being done as much as it was in the past.