Yes and he does not believe in getting psychological help, he would not even go to counseling for our marriage.
My mother had a friend whose husband came home from work and put on white gloves to test the cleanliness of the fridge front, table tops, whatever. If the glove had a smidgen of dirt, she had to clean again while he told her what a pig she was. She finally left him.
There is a big difference between being the head of your family and taking responsibility for their care and being a little Napoleon.