Back in the mid 80’s, before we married, my hubby and I broke up for awhile. NOT ONE guy in our group of friends (and even outer circle acquaintances) would touch me with a ten foot pole. Finally, one told me, you’re Ron’s girl, even if he don’t know it right now! I think sometimes even OTHER people can see it.
Sort of the same type of story here.I was ready to settle down but hubby wasn’t.I ended up starting to date someone else who seemed like the man of my dreams who ended up the biggest mistake of my life.I went and married the other guy and lived through 4 years of h*ll.A few days after I came home to Ohio at my Mom’s urging I called my now husband up and he knew as soon as he heard my vioce who it was.He was supposed to show up on Saturday and we were going to go for lunch/coffee.He showed up the next day and never left. LOL