Secular humanism--the ethic behind what we call liberalism--is most properly regarded as a Christian heresy. It is an attempt at (more or less) Christian ethics, without Christ. The love of Christ alone really breaks down the ethnic/racial/cultural barriers between peoples.
Christianity is "humanistic" in the sense that we have a Human as our head, that is Christ Himself. It is the only real and valid humanism--as it is also simultaneously the real worship of the one accessible, loving-and-righteous, personal God, unlike other forms of theism.
you have put into logical sentences what I was trying to say which makes it make sense! :) thank you