Several years ago (at least 15?), I was at a job fair (I was still in the military, the Air Force had a booth). There were many media organizations there, including Newsweek (which was right next to the Washington Post, which I believed owned Newsweek then).
The Newsweek booth had a sign directing gays and lesbians to a certain individual sitting all my herself. People were laughing and said "No straights need apply." The folks from Newsweek smiled and shouted: "Yup!"
I relate that story because it is important to understand how much the media lies about gays and lesbians. To wit, it is chock full of them.
When you see a sitcom, and all the homosexuals have a "snappy" sense of humor and act as the voice of care, compassion, and reason in every plot - don't believe it.
We are all sinners.
What we have to understand is that homosexuality is a sin that completely takes over the character of an individual, promotes worship of "the act", and robs humans of humanity.
What you said about the viciousness of violence between homosexuals is dead on. The Nazi party was full of homosexuals, and yet, that fact is never stated or taught. In homosexual relationships, you see higher instances of violence, suicide, and alcohol/drug abuse. It is a frightening prospect, and we should pray for these people. They are caught up in an addiction, and a terrible one.
I read this, and see the world today:
"1This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. 2For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, 3Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, 4Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; 5Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away. 6For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts, 7Ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth. 8Now as Jannes and Jambres withstood Moses, so do these also resist the truth: men of corrupt minds, reprobate concerning the faith. 9But they shall proceed no further: for their folly shall be manifest unto all men, as their's also was. 10But thou hast fully known my doctrine, manner of life, purpose, faith, longsuffering, charity, patience, 11Persecutions, afflictions, which came unto me at Antioch, at Iconium, at Lystra; what persecutions I endured: but out of them all the Lord delivered me. 12Yea, and all that will live godly in Christ Jesus shall suffer persecution. 13But evil men and seducers shall wax worse and worse, deceiving, and being deceived."
2 Timothy 3: 1-13