Of the whole crew I know, only one was responsible, he is out of the loop now. Actually, he was a career Naval Officer, very low key but even he didn’t seem happy to me because he never seemed to feel comfortable with all of the craziness of everyone else, especially his partner. A day or 2 after breaking up, his partner had already hooked up with someone else. It seemed very callous to me.
Needless to say, I don’t go to the restaurant very often, too much for me.
He was probably cheating and had already "hooked up" with the other guy. My brother has consistently left his partners for someone else.