You have a tin ear for irony, which is a classic sign of someone whose wealth of knowledge and experience are either middling or below middling.
When someone tells me that a person has a right to play fast-and-loose with the lives of his children, or indeed that anyone has a right to play fast-and-loose with the life of any human being, I think it logical to assume that his moral philosophies tend in the same direction as those who maintain that a woman's offspring is her property to do with as she pleases. That's the crux of my remark. If this sounds abusive, please forgive me, but it's no more abusive than than the peurile, ill-considered remarks that you and others have directed toward me.
If my experience is considered middling because I had not met a person willing to use the slaugther of babies as humor or to make a point, then I am content in my innocence.