yes I have indeed some people (male and female) that don't appear to be all there but you see that in all walks of life.....your minister, your priest, your various teachers, the bus driver who picks up your kids.....a scoutmaster that doesn't seem quite up to par....how about your neighbor who would love to have your child have an "overnighter" with his,her child????why don't you and your husband have a wonderful anniversary weekend and just drop your kids off with us.....come on now, you cannot protect your children from everything or you'd NEVER put them in a car nor on an airplane. When they're born, build a concrete block shelter, put them in it, and release them when they're 21.....that will certainly make well rounded individuals of them. Granted bad things are possible, but paranoia is not the answer....being careful, astute, vigilant are certainly ways to protect your kids......expecting the worst from someone, anyone, because of their gender is nonsense........by the way, statistically, your kids would be safer with me than with your husband.....many more cases of abuse are by parents than by strangers.....by the way, I'd love to take care of your kids and believe me, they would be as safe as if they were in your concrete block building.....just having more fun!!!
My kids have hardly lived in a concrete block shelter. They’ve lived and visited half the globe. You can be astute and vigilant to a fault but when some creepy dude has your toddler for nine or ten hours a day, good luck finding out if something is awry until it’s far too late. Yeah, and my kid isn’t spending time with any scout masters on overnights either. I know I can’t protect them from everything but I can look out for glaringly obvious warning signs. Like grown men who look for ways to spend inordinate amounts of times with young kids.