that is “definitely not ok to grow up WITHOUT fathers”
[that is “definitely not ok to grow up WITHOUT fathers”]
The whole thing is a shame, but it should have been differently.
The Scriptures of God’s only begotten Son Jesus Christ teach that God gives roles to every person in the family unit, the father and the mother and the children are instructed and warned to live lives that we may safe. Those who choose otherwise will suffer the consequences of unbelief. A mother of children should be at home with the children to raise them and guide the house and the father is to work and instruct the children in the ways of God and His Christ. This will not change until God changes and He changes not.
It is foolish and dangerous fathers and mothers and children to live outside His will, and His will will be done, the zeal of the Lord of Hosts will perform this.