Also worked in the bar business for years and I absolutely second your comments. In my occupational life now I review a lot of psych records and one thing that jumps out at me is that many, many of these young men have been greviously sexually molested in their youth. I’ve seen many cases where they actually profess attraction to women, but they have been drug so far down the deviant path by their “associates” they cannot function as a normal male in our society. In addition many of them are nasty, bitchy and divisive, hardly the material for a strong, functioning military.
Your post highlights the lie behind “born that way”.
Why are people who are “born that way” more likely to have been molested as children?
Why are people who are “born that way” more likely to be adopted by homosexual “parents”?