I was forced to drink milk my whole childhood. Milk makes me throw up. I have an allergy to it. Who is she to insist all children must drink milk with meals? I drink soda thank-you. It does not make me throw up.
I spent my childhood and teenage years blown up like a zeppelin with stomach cramps. Only in recent years, I finally figured out it wasn’t normal; that I was lactose intolerant (Cherokee heritage from way back). Now, I get lactose free milk and use chewable Lactaid before I eat regular dairy, even yogurt. It’s like daylight and dark.
You shouldn’t drink milk with meals. Milk crystallizes the hydrochloric acid in the stomach needed for digestion. Your food doesn’t breakdown the right way. It’s a gastric aid and milk basically neutralizes it.