well, i really was not trying to be... however, the issue is people spending money they don't have on Valentine's Day gifts... if a man has enough money to buy his wife a card, i say let him! if it's in the budget to bake a cake, i say bake the cake! if there is no money for these things, then one should not feel inclined to do them anyway... and if one does not care to celebrate this commercial holiday, then (hoping the significant other agrees) i say feel free to disregard! btw--my husband makes me one cup of coffee every morning without fail... i like to say it's his daily Valentine to me! i love Valentine's Day!
I'll need your sister's number. Private mail will do.