Just out of curiosity, what happened?
Let’s just say that someone in my family thinks lying about me to hide their own sin is OK. And in my family, gossip and triangulation is rampant. No one ever asks me if a story one of the other of them tells, is true. Not once my whole life. It is a very sick dynamic that can’t be undone. The rest of them like it this way.
It is very painful, and I ask God for the strength to continue to forgive them.