Do you think it is even possible that a young adolescent boy might not only feel uncomfortable putting his hands and body all over a girl, but might be at a distinct disadvantage because he might be concerned about where he has to put his hands?
We can make a lot of jokes about that paragraph I just wrote, but the point I make is appropriate.
So it’s appropriate to put hands all over a fellow male but not a female. Some might call that “gay”. Maybe wresting is just an inappropriate sport, altogether.
Get my drift?
Wresting isn’t sexual. It’s physical. If the participants are mature enough to compete in a serious sport at the highest levels, this just shouldn’t be an issue.