+1 on that.
People say lots of things,some are true and some are not, and among the things not to be trusted the Vikings listed ‘talk in bed’.
But I have a return rate of well over 50% - gals I have broken up with who come back DTF.
When you have broken up with them, broken their heart, they told you off, cried their tears - and then they decide they should really hit you up for sex again - they dug it.
Maybe you could offer your penthouse forum submissions as an amicus brief.