Sorry that people get their feelings hurt but the only thing that should be important is landing a job.
yes, but when you go through 3-4 interviews for a position and don't hear back, it's... not nice... this recently happened to someone i know who was interviewing with Amazon for an IT job... he had gone through four interviews... as far as he could tell, the last interview went well... the interviewer made it sound like there would be a next step... and then NADA... fortunately for this person, in two-months' time, he ended up receiving FOUR job offers... happy for him...