Why are we constantly measuring along racial lines. My son’s girlfriend and I were talking about her family a couple of weeks ago and she said some in her family go out with whites. I was totally taken back. I said why do you call us whites we are just like you, American. She went on to explain that she looks different and is not white but Asian. So I ended the conversation by saying we should look at our similarities which is we are Americans first.
Many, in fact most, wish to see their grandchildren be a similar physical manifestation of themselves in appearance. I don't see anything to be taken aback by in that.