So, you joined FR last week to try to get us to drop social conservatism? Or is technonerd not your first FR name?
The question is: where to go from here?
For actual conservatives, the answer to that will ALWAYS be to continue to advance conservatism.
The best obtainable solution is probably to sidestep the problem by separating marriage and state.
Are you a retread, or did you simply join to promote sodomy? Marriage is a solemn union between ONE MAN and ONE WOMAN, anything else is a satanic abomination.
Perhaps you should read this:
That's what I said -- advance conservatism; get the government out of its entanglements with everything under the sun.