I don't for a minute believe that someone is born queer. If queers are strongly drawn to same sex passions, it's because of choices they have made or circumstances they have been forced into at some point in their lives and even at that they still can choose to subdue their passions.
Take Priests for example who subscribe to a celibate life and regardless of all the sex scandals about Priests posted at F.R., I believe the great majority of them are celibate. (I'm not Catholic).
Yes, it's unnatural to subdue sexual urges but God demands that we go along with His rules. He is a just God and he is sovereign, that means that He and He alone makes the rules, whether we think they are "fair" or not.
Excellent article with many links.
http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/2730140/posts
Not born this way: The facts, plus help available
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