Posted on 07/01/2011 8:58:45 AM PDT by chessplayer
It's Fourth of July weekend - how about cheating on your spouse?
For those not thinking about it, a piece to be published in the New York Times Magazine this Sunday marvelously titled "Married, With Infidelities" is recommending it:
Ding ding ding ding ding! We have a winner!
“Quite a few birds do as well.
Rodent not doing well surprises me...they have large, frequent litters and unless theyre absolutely terrible at avoiding danger or theres some sickness I dont know about, its quite against the odds not to have at least a slowly increasing population purely from the size of the litters.”
I would imagine something else is involved. Disease, poisons, loss of habitat. I doubt monogamy is causing them to die out. If that was the case they would have been extinct long ago.
>> Yes, folks, the NYT is really THAT stupid.
That divisive. Communism runs through its veins.
You end up with a lot of young men with no prospects. Bad things happen in such societies.
Humans are not inherently monogamous. I could guarantee that almost no straight man or woman could walk out of this chat saying that they only felt a crush on one person of the opposite gender. It’s up to any given person, however, to exert their own self-control or face consequences, some as severe as the possibility of contracting an incurable STD (Herpes Type II or HIV) or one that leaves bad prospects for the future (genital warts and cancer later on in said region). Then there’s also the fact that a person unfaithful to one’s spouse would also have to be a liar to one’s children as well, often in the form of claiming you were so busy to be around with them, when in fact you were messing around at their expense. Then there’s the fact that God simply doesn’t condone you doing so.
“Before this thread goes much further someone will claim that the Bible says we should only have one wife. That is wrong. The Bible makes no such declaration, in fact among the early years it was customary for the wife and children of a deceased man to go to his brother. That kept the Hebrews from needing any sort of welfare system.”
The key point here, though, is that what makes some pedophile and his compound way different from those living in ancient times is the fact that God actually had some sanctioning in the case of Abraham, Jacob, or in the case of Moses. From all that is going on, I doubt he is sanctioning such groups as the Nation of YHVH or the Warren Jeffs and his FLDS ranch out in Texas, would you agree?
As far as modern society goes, I do agree that it simply doesn’t work out. It especially doesn’t work out with the serious perversions that go on. I doubt any of the major religions would publicly approve of it, especially in the U.S. and Europe.
The good news is that obviously he had never met Osama Bin Laden.
I don’t think he didn’t but I would assume that he means a sane person living in the civilized world versus living in some #@$%#%^& of a place in Pakistan that looked so dilapidated it could practically be considered a wastebasket.
If you don't want to be faithful, then DON'T GET MARRIED.
The Warren Jeffs fiasco was brought about by his penchant for very young wives. Had he been a bit more prudent and settled for women past the age of consent the State would probably have left him alone. In my opinion, he succumbed to a similar feeling of invincibility as did Bill Clinton, Anthony Weiner and John Edwards. Each had the idea that they were so big, so important that they could get away with anything.
I must admit that I once maintained two wives in the same house... for awhile. I knew going into the situation that it couldn’t work forever and that I would end up crying. In time one or both of the women - and I loved them both - would decide to leave. I was fortunate that one stayed but I still miss the one who left.
“The Warren Jeffs fiasco was brought about by his penchant for very young wives. Had he been a bit more prudent and settled for women past the age of consent the State would probably have left him alone.”
I agree wholeheartedly. In all honesty, Hugh Hefner and his girlfriends are practically his harem, to say the least, but nobody cares because they make no attempts to get at a marriage license. However, I don’t see a need for polygamy to ever be something that most of society to promote and support. Our welfare system is pretty corrupt as it is, and among the few that tarnish the reputation, it makes it a pretty rediculous hurdle to desire supporting, or to be held accountable to support with what is going on. However, if you took a look at my own list of things to worry about, polygamy is not the number one thing I have to chase after. Taking care of my own family and keeping it so without having to ask for a welfare handout, ranks way higher. But then again, that is society’s problem in general, worrying about the fact that it is somehow oppressive that there could be people don’t agree with what you do (The homosexual agenda immediately comes to mind).
Again, it’s important to work with the laws of the land, which I don’t believe condone polygamy, and it’s worth reading about (Romans, chapter 13)
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