The kid was an impressionable sixteen year old, and they let him do whatever the sam hell he wanted.
I rest my case.
The fastest way to ruin a kid, is to never say no.
Frank is a fruitcake and divorced from his wife. The traitor son was raised in a single parent household. No wonder he was so F*cked up. Now if Frank, because he’s fruity, didn’t marry and procreate, we wouldn’t have John the traitor, would we?