We had 24 weekers that were deemed unlikely to survive and were encouraged to let one of our twins go. Not abort it per say, just Terri Schiavo him. 3 and a half years later they are both very health children. Not every situation but, it happens here too. My pro government healthcare friends often tell me without Obamacare my children will never have healthcare in the future due to their pre-existing conditions. I often remind him if they were born with Obamacare in place (death panels?) I believe we would have never had the choice to give them care in the first place.
God Bless You & Your Wonderful Children!