Thank you for your post.
The stories my grand-daughters have shared would curl anyones hair. ...and their school was supposedly one of the best. But the environment was something else altogether we would learn. Kids can and do know how to outwit the teachers...they know even what teachers will turn their heads as well as those who won’t and all in between.
I know one father whose daughter was being touched on the school bus. He went to the school ..and thru the nonsense about proof etc. When there was nothing forthcoming from the school the father took matters into his own hands....
...he knew the bus route and where the kid got off....along a rural road. He waited for him... after the bus drove away, let’s just say he put the fear of God in the kid...up front and personal. Told the kid if he ever said a word to anyone they’d be picking him up off the road when they found him. The kid never touched his daughter again.
Point is the school would not do a thing in addressing this kid....no proof.