That's right. You remove the family and religion as the principal organizing institutions that demand sacrifice and loyalty from citizens, then all you are left with is the state. In the past the communists were atheists and wanted the children to be loyal only to the state. Children were encouraged to spy and turn in their parents -- state allegiance supervened the natural bonds of family and religion. One of the best way of weakening the family is to weaken religion which promotes traditional family and marriage. The vices that religion are against -- pornography, adultery, prostitution, sodomy, polygamy, bestiality, etc. -- are vices because they weaken the family, whose main purpose is to protect children (societies weakest members). But today these vices have been normalized: redefined as lifestyle choices, where everything is of equal value and just a question of "taste." Even pedophilia will one day be considered a legitimate lifestyle choice rather than a disorder or pathology; where children will be encouraged to have sex at younger ages and it will be seen as their natural right; where the age that defines children as children today will be lowered to accommodate these practices. This is all part of the debauchery that lay ahead if the socialists ultimately get their way. Theirs will be a pleasure dome worthy of disgust. Nietzsche said "God is dead" and Dostoevsky might as well finished his sentence with "and everything is permitted." A reversion to pagan times is the future... if things don't change for the better.
We know all this, we see it happening yet we can’t stop it.
There is an answer, but most people won’t begin to entertain it, and it is as simple as revoking certain laws and policies to do it.