Interesting point, but what happens if the BCP fails and "a mistake" happens. Does one "correct the mistake" by murdering the baby?
I do agree with you that sex is fun as God intended, but if is it ONLY fun, that's not what God intended, imho
One could also say about the guy -- suppose he wants to 'spread his seed', is it then ok to have extra-marital sex? With or without contraceptives?
There are too many questions -- I repeat that this may not be relevant in your particular case at all, but this is where the line of thinking of contraceptives spreads as a whole
Marriage can be a commitment between two people, without children. --> Ben and wagglebee and I (and I'm sure DJ too) believe that marriage is more than that. Marriage is not a contract, it's more than a commitment, more than a partnership. This is a sacred union with God in the mix -- it is a permanent commitment to each other and to God. It is a duty to God and to each other
Children used to be viewed as a blessing. Since the widespread use of birth control they are now “planned” or an “accident”. Birth control brought us “guilt free sex”. Except it didn’t. All it has done is make women, and men, view children as an unwanted burden. And it has given us an immoral society. Sex has replaced bowling as an all American past time......and children, a natural outcome, is now a “foul” that can be murdered.
Suppose one already determined to raise the child as a loved member of the family. People do that you know. Lots of families have unplanned children and do that.
Again it gets back to this personal responsibility thing, again, the winning argument and the one your side therefore won't stick to.