[GOPJ]

OR it could be that NY divorce laws consider either partner’s having relations with anyone else during a separation still as “adultery” and his investigators may be working to reduce BOR’s financial liability for a divorce?

I thought that kind of stuff ended in the sixties...

[EDINVA]

well, it DID, but sometimes it takes a long time for laws to catch up with the ‘cultural’ trends. Another poster said NYS divorce law recently changed. Here in VA, a couple with children has to be living apart for a full year before they can apply for divorce. I find in my dotage that I think making divorce more difficult is a good thing.