The equipment generally doesn't come out unless there's a cooperating female.
4Runner does have a point, although I wouldn't take it nearly as far as he does, in that many women do like playing games that result in men getting very upset, and more than one woman likes instigating conflict among men because she likes being competed for.
It seems that what 4runner did was provide a local example of this type of situation. He never said that he was involved in that particular situation. The situation he used is one of hundreds and most likely hundreds of thousands more that are happening across our country as we type. In every town, neighborhood, and family. We only hear about the ones where someone is killed, as in his example. Unfortunately children are exposed to many of these similar situations.
And as 4 runner also pointed out....that altar of convenience plays a HUGE role. Bravo to you 4runner for speaking the truth.