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To: AAABEST

Nearly every professional woman has had the experience of saying something in a meeting, receiving no response, and then listening as a male colleague offers the same thought or suggestion minutes later to great acclaim. The first time it happens, she feels slightly foolish and is a little unsettled. Did I say that out loud or just in my head? Maybe he made the point better than I did. The second time it happens, she gets frustrated. The third time, she gets angry.\

Worked with men in a variety of settings. Never did this happen to me, whether I was the only woman in the room, or working in a mixed group on a board. How one commands a meeting is important. When playing with the big boys one needs to take up as much room as a big boy...but different.


24 posted on 09/22/2011 5:14:54 AM PDT by Chickensoup (In the 20th century 200 million people were killed by their own governments.)
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To: Chickensoup
When playing with the big boys one needs to take up as much room as a big boy...but different.

Very true. Women that get ignored (when I have seen it happen) do a bad job of conveying their ideas. A man saying things in the same way would also get ignored. The subtle stuff can make all the difference in how your ideas get across.
26 posted on 09/22/2011 5:42:31 AM PDT by TalonDJ
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