I’m right there with you. I don’t know what happened to the little kids holiday it used to be. (im almost 50) Now it is a demonic drunken brawl. Count me out.
Through most of its history Halloween has been a grown up holiday. Halloween as kid fun was a relatively recent development, and has now passed on, the adults took it back. Probably the first step to that was the paranoia about tampered candy, that made it no fun for kids, but somebody is still going to enjoy the holiday.