I never wanted more than one or two kids.
My first wife and I had two girls. My new wife brought a 15 year old daughter into our marriage with her.
We are expecting (at 42 and 40 respectively) our first son.
We were not planning on having another child but God blessed us. We are debating contraception vs sterilization after our son is delivered.
Me? I’d just as soon he have a sibling closer to his age....but I am not the one that would be getting pregnant.
There are how many billions of acres of land on this earth that are not currently lived on or producing food?
The earth can handle it.
Congratulations;)
I know of several women having their first child in their late 30’s & 40’s.
As noted elsewhere on this thread - life expectancy is going up and we are adjusting accordingly.
Good luck and God bless.