Blame the Sexual Revolution, Not Men

Townhall.com ^ | October 28, 2011 | Mona Charen

[driftless2]

Speaking as an older married male, Bolick is a very physically attractive women. A lot of Freepers have a tendency to let politics trump their optic sensibilities.

[Notwithstanding]

Why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free?

[mkjessup]

If Kate Bolick is "kinda homely" then I must have been whomped really hard with the homely stick. I'm certainly not as well-favored with "looks" as she is.

C'mon now Mrs. Don-o, I'll bet you're a knock out and that Mr. Don-o would absolutely agree.

[American Constitutionalist]

" American Men who want to marry have been looking outside the US to find brides who want to be in a committed relationship and raise kids since the seventies. In large numbers. "

Yeah, but, even the feminist who work in government, and or congress have made things more difficult for those men who want to find a woman outside of the USA.
Feminism has become the very thing that they hated, or despised that they thought they saw in men.

[driftless2]

"Mrs. Howell"

Lovey, Natalie Schafer, stills looks pretty good. Of course, I'm over sixty.

[American Constitutionalist]

" just that she looks cold, aloof, and impossible to please '

That there can make any physically beautiful women ugly.

Guy's take a hint, when you constantly have to please her ? her mind is on someone else , it's time to move on.

[Pollster1]

They start wondering, where are have all the good men gone?

Where have all the good men gone and where are all the gods?
Where's the great white Hercules to fight the rising odds?
Isn't there a white knight upon a fiery steed?
Late at night I toss and I turn and I dream of what I need
I need a hero.
I'm holding out for a hero 'til the end of the night.
He's gotta be strong.
And he's gotta be fast
And he's gotta be fresh from the fight.

[globelamp]

Oh, for actually living with someone, that´s all true. I´m talking raw attraction power here. When one starts to make more mature calculations for a longer term relationship, it´s a good idea to look deeper than mere sexiness.

[globelamp]

Strange, it´s almost as if women prefer manly men. ;)

[Hemingway's Ghost]

A spoiled child ... she made her bed, now she can sleep in it. Alone.

Right on, man.

" Why did she discard him? "Something was missing."

That something is a combination of maturity and the notion that there exists something worthwhile beyond the self.

[globelamp]

Being tall and having a good social position can make up for some meekness.

Note though that one does not have to be a stereotypical Arnold S in order not to repel women - having self respect and not allowing the woman to walk all over you is usually good enough.

[knittnmom]

And make sure your tone of voice matches what you are saying. If you say “I was wrong” but your tone of voice says “I was right but if I don’t apologize she’ll make me suffer for DAYS”, she’ll still make you suffer for days.

[ConservativeWarrior]

The purpose of life is sex and procreation

Assuming this is true, raising your spawn to also successfully propogate your genes is implied.

Humans require more parental attention than any other animal on the planet. We cannot survive on our own for at least 3 years. Given human intelligence and the society it has spawned, I contend that at least 16 years of actual raising by an adult is required to be successful. (there are exceptions both ways)

Thus, if you want to truly pass on your genes in an ideal fashion, you have to both conceive and raise a kid.

I won't even go into how unlikely it is that a casual hookup with a bar slnt will actually result in pregnancy. And even if it does, the odds are low the child will be born.

[cherry]

"That’s not the point of the article! Point is, feminism has destroyed the happiness of millions by persuading women to screw around randomly."

so which came first.....Hugh Hefner and the rationalization of porn being a "good" accepted thing OR women rebelling against such crap?...

I am so totally discouraged about today's culture and it just baffles me that people do not see the objectification of women as being the evil foundation of it all....

we'll belittle women for not marrying but dressing like sluts to get dates is OKAY and God forbid we ever criticize erotic "dancers" or Hooters waitresses or the endless worhip of porn by men......

I don't get it....

Its almost like "feminism" was the "trojan" horse for men to get everything they want:....constant access to porn and promicuous "no strings attached" sexual encounters..

congratulations men...you got it all.....

you tell your little girls or SHOW them that women who dress provacatively and act like sluts actually DO get better treatment than those nice girls....well, what the hell do we expect?

[cuban leaf]

Yeah. And Men prefer feminine women. It’s as if we were wired that way. Go figure. :-D

[Hemingway's Ghost]

Exceptin’ maybe you sweet Mainiacs. The only northern girls I’ve ever known to show spunk!

Yes, but in terms of "showing spunk," I don't think "dappled on the chin" or "drying on the front of a shirt" is a good look for a woman. Or a man, for that matter.

[Hemingway's Ghost]

Exceptin’ maybe you sweet Mainiacs. The only northern girls I’ve ever known to show spunk!

Yes, but in terms of "showing spunk," I don't think "dappled on the chin" or "drying on the front of a shirt" is a good look for a woman. Or a man, for that matter.

[little jeremiah]

Best Comment of the Day.

I’m sorry that urban Yankee feminists aren’t happy, I suppose ... but they could move South, act like ladies, and go to church, if they wanted better potential outcomes.

[Titan Magroyne]

Reference http://www.fredoneverything.net/Divorce.shtml

Oye! not to mention how many people have their own falsely-accused-of-molestation stories when the subject comes up.

Good link up in #111, Drummie, tho heartbreakingly familiar. I just get a kick out of how ole Fred there expresses himself.