See how ingrained that usage is? A lot of men believe that, and then a lot of women believe, on their side, that the "winners" are those who can get the cads and players to have sex with them.
And then everyone blames someone else for a situation that they are unable to understand is based in error and corruption from the very first point.
“A lot of men believe that, and then a lot of women believe, on their side, that the “winners” are those who can get the cads and players to have sex with them. “
That´s one of the core errors that women make. The hard thing isn´t getting the attractive male to sleep with you (provided that you are yourself moderately attractive), it´s making him stick around.
Needless to say, today´s slut / cad culture makes that a pretty difficult project.