You are so right, OneVike. If someone is being completely honest and look back over their entire life.... there are always incidents or mistakes that someone made that could be twisted to look just awful. As a young adult, did one get tipsy at a party? It could be twisted. Date the wrong person? Drive too fast? Get into a car accident? Get in a physical fight? All of these things could be blown up to look almost monsterous.
Well, my story is this, I had my mess ups, not as extreme as plenty of other kids, but I made some bad choices. However, arguing in my own defense, I paid the fines/penalties for whatever I did, and if someone wishes to try and judge me with some claim of moral purity, I could care less. I do hope that Cain can clear up whether or not he did what he did, and simply mention whether or not he paid due penalty if he did do them, so that we can know it’s time to kick in forgiveness, and if his accusers are simply attention whores.