You miss the point of my argument.
I say, IF you insist that a candidate signs on to your position, that THEN you need to answer a reasonable question, "why doesn't this position you insist on win elections? In fact, why does it always lose?"
That's a fair and reasonable question.
If your point is, if you can't have what you want on this issue then you don't care if Obama gets re-elected, that's fine. I have issues like that, just not this one.
But you are calling people out for not insisting that our candidate go your way on this one, without showing, or even claiming, that your position is popular.
It isn't popular, which is why you keep losing, and some of us don't want to lose with you.