I grew up in this sport.
I spent countless hours in the gym with adult male coaches.
Not one of them gave a hint of this kind of behavior.
Most bullets, the great majority, of those fired never hit the mark on the prey. Most arrows launched from bowstring the same.
That you emerged into mature adulthood without encountering such a situation certainly doesn’t meant you were never the prey.
Men are men, and our minds are wired — by G-d Himself — to seek growth, power and sex. Women less so, but still they too, so seek.
This world of the living is no easy play, even when it may appear to be for some time.