Just confirming what I already know. It’s confused my shrink friend for years, and I don’t begin to understand it. You’re not alone though. It seems women are much more comfortable with that lifestyle once they’re into it than men are.
“It seems women are much more comfortable with that lifestyle once they’re into it than men are.”
You would have to attend a party to understand why. I could tell you but I’d be banned and deservedly so.
Imprinting.
I’d venture that people who marry their first sexual partners are imprinted on them and more apt to have long happy marriages.
I’d further venture that having multiple partners blurs the imprinting and starts an imprint on variety, rendering a single partner solution incomplete and unsatisfying.