You don't have to. It's simply an opportunity for angry men to rant about women who divorced them, wouldn't date them or cheated on them. LOL
You’re right. :)
feminism or no feminism, it did not matter since the crew left men, women and children behind.
also, the itallian maritime history of not doing the women and children first policy.
It seems from this thread, the hotel crew were tending to the passengers on lifeboats. The non-european crew must have been focusing on doing what they were trained in abandon ship drills and running for the crew boats.
all in all it is a PR nightmare, again, for itallian cruise ships.