She does realize that unless she files a complaint against her husband for violating the order that they can ignore it with impunity if both decide too. Heck, I see it all the time in my area, Hubby and Wife gets in a fight, one or the other gets a domestic order, a week later they are back living together. (of course while the order is in effect, the spouse that its against risks arrest if they piss of the other and a complaint is filed)
I'm sure they do, he is an ex ADA but has no LE experience, and she is a Venezuelan soap opera star who knows every leftist legal trick in the book.
This is a fight between two good commies over who is the commie in charge, and normal for politicians and true San Francisco "citizens". (Really big smirk.)