there is only one answer
open up your Bible to the book of John
read it daily, all the way through each day
If you do, and actually care what it says, you will know what to do
After a gut-wrenching moment 17 years ago my Bible opened up to me and the answer was in John after a serious night of prayer. The pages moved around as my questions were furious. Old and New, back to Old and back to New. I cried for the first time in 20 years. It was quite a moment with Me, the Holy Ghost and my Lord.