So you’re saying that a married couple, that has 2 kids, and doesn’t want any more should just never, never, ever have sex? Even though it helps the health of the marriage? My wife has a contraceptive implant, and we use condoms because we enjoy being together. After 45+ hours of work during the week, and the stress of two small kids, sex helps us relax and enjoy each other.
I didn’t say never have sex, don’t be silly! My husband and I have been married for 45 years, have 4 children, with our youngest in spite of using birth control.
One doesn’t have to have intercourse to enjoy sexual pleasure with each other, we figured it out years ago.
Using the pill really messed up my libido, so we used barrier methods, which can fail.