Yes, there is a "cocktail" of diseases that homos are prone to, just like there is a cocktail of drugs to try to make them live a little longer.
I saw a post by a gay man recently somewhere on the net where he was saying ‘what do you want to get married for’ and running down married life as boring and antiquidated.
I’m sure that is the real opinion out there in larger numbers of these men. As you pointed out, even when they marry, it doesn’t reflect the marriage we all think of as ‘marriage’.
Distressing, and if Obama gets reelected, we will all be paying for these diseases with Obamacare.