Pretending that the instigators weren't from the south and that the north is to blame for the insurrection is kinda like the rapist saying to the woman, "Lady, there ain't nothing you can do so you may as well lay back and enjoy it" lol.
Our guys, believing in liberty and justice for all, endured the atrocities until it all ended. Along with it died the concept of a nation governed by men enlightened with the concept of liberty, not egalitarianism.
You can say that about the modern-day south but that's not remotely the conditions on the ground during any part of the confederacy. And definitely not for the incorrect melanin-hued.
I been thinking about posting a bestiary -- that is, an I.F.F. dictionary of politically active names related to Civil War politics.
In no particular sequence, here's what I have so far (mostly quoted from Wiki):
"Wigfall, for one, actively encouraged an attack on Fort Sumter to prompt Virginia and other upper Southern States to secede as well.
Thus, the Fire-Eaters helped to unleash a chain reaction that eventually led to the formation of the Confederate States of America and to the American Civil War.
Their influence waned quickly after the start of major fighting."
Copperhead 1864 pamphlet, USA, mocking President Abraham Lincoln.
Does anyone know more names to add to the list?
When it comes right down to it, you really do not know anything about which you posted, and using a contrived analogy does not help.